It's not just compliments and sex he's hoping for — though, let's face it, he wouldn't mind a little more of those, too. Or whatever your silly side has the urge to do. Men feel relief when they get an occasional break from a woman's serious, action-oriented sides which he's not knocking; he totally digs how ambitious and efficient you are. Of course he's not going to complain when anyone says something nice about him who would? So for every time you whine about his football obsession or forgetting to take out the trash, remember to high-five him for picking up the kids from soccer or tell him how kickass his work presentation looked.
Coarse attributes that come to mind add in intelligence, kindness, sense of humor, allure, or reliability. We may think we are looking for a partner who complements us only in positive behaviour, but on an unconscious level, we are frequently drawn to people who complement us in negative ways at the same time as well. What this means is so as to we tend to pick partners who fit in with our existing affecting baggage. We are inclined to play again events and dynamics that hurt us in the past in our fully developed relationships. Were they too controlling?
Not I've-got-basketball-on-TV attention or I'm-mentally-undressing-you attention, although full presence. Things that don't qualify: a pat on the bottom, a finger pistol plus wink, a yesssss! He had you at Hello, although what makes him think he be able to keep you at S'up? A a small amount of examples: He should speak the accuracy when you ask, Are you ache by what I said earlier? Additional benefit points if his fervor spills above to you and pumps up your body ego. This isn't to advise that maple syrup, cartwheels and the French maid costume are out, although you should be having plain vanilla love whenever you want it.